He Quickly Warmed Up and Socialized

Written by Elein Sutherland, Recreation Therapist/Service Coordinator
*Peter has severe anxiety regarding women and dating. When he first entered the relationships class, he had a melt down and refused to continue. He continued anyway and was often positive and engaging in class. For the relationships class, we have a group date at the end of the term where they practice the skills they've learned in class. They are required to ask a date of their choice to this date. Peter was anxious about this activity and adamant that he would not attend.

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Since many of the students in the class are not currently looking to date, I changed the terminology from "group date" to "group gathering." The students are encouraged to invite a friend they would like to get to know better. Peter was still adamant that he would not attend class because he felt uncomfortable. I had a discussion with him about stretching himself by just walking by the group gathering and see what's inside. He said that he would try. Come Tuesday, he attended the group gathering without prompt. He initially kept to himself, but quickly warmed up and socialized with a group of 5 other students for 30 minutes. That group naturally dissolved around that time. Peter was appropriate in the activity and seemed to really enjoy himself.

​*Name has been changed